Does law change human behaviour?

Some people doubt that law can change the behaviour of people , while others believe that law and its enforcement is necessary in society as it help to have better behaviour among society members. I believe law can have some positive effects on people’s behaviour.

in any community there are some people who may commit crimes, and may hurt people, and ignore the social norms. In such situations establishment and  enforcement of law is necessary by establishing rules and regulation to control and guide people and have choices for people who break the law. for example law says when someone  is condemned as a rubber , he should go to prison as punishment. Jail is a solution as a serious punishment to change the negative behaviour of rubbery .

 on the other hand, in many situations law has a preventive role. for instance, by establishing some regulations on passing traffic lights or fasten seat belt, such as financial penalties it lead people to obey the law and be responsible and safre driver in  a society. These regulation result in developing good habits and law brings out responsibility in people.

To conclude, it seems the fear of penalty and punishment lead to obedience in human behaviour. Law establishment and enforcement help to develop more responsible people and can prevent crime and make communities more peaceful and safe.

how write an essay-part 1

to write an essay there are some rules and standards that we should follow them to write a good essay in English. one of the good guides is presented by Simon. he suggests writing an essay for IELTS exam in 4 paragraphs. which includes one paragraph as an introduction and 2 as main paragraphs and at the end, the conclusion is coming. the proposed style will be an essay in about 200- 300 words and it takes 20 minutes to complete it.
first of all, Simon suggests we recognize the type of questions and essay we should consider, whether it is Discussion, Opinion, Problem &solution or a 2-part question.based on any of these 4 types, we can write the proper essay. totally he suggests 2 sentences for introduction, 5 sentences for every 2 main paragraphs and 1 sentence for a conclusion.
to start with the introduction, it is suggested to be in 2 sentences, the first introduces the topic and the other give a general answer. for the 2 main body paragraphs, 5 sentences are suggested for each one. there are two methods to write the body paragraphs, based on the idea we want to develop in each paragraph.
for 2 main body paragraphs; if it is developing "one idea", we do this: idea, explain, example, for example, we present one idea, then give a reason, and then express an opinion. if we want to talk about more than one idea, we use: firstly, secondly, finally. this method is mostly used when we are talking about advantages, disadvantages or problem and solution styles.
In the end, we present our conclusion, it is better to not introduce any new idea there. we give our conclusion in one sentence, it is mostly the paraphrase of the answer that we have presented in the introduction

Extreme sports, support or not?

Extreme sports such as bungee jumping, skiing, and scuba diving are exciting sports that have their own fans while some people are against doing such sports. I individually support adventures sports as they involve having new experiences and excitement and anyone should be free to do any activity he is interested in. People by considering safety issues can go for such activities and enjoy it.
Based on people characteristics, each enjoys different types of sports and activities. While some enjoy playing chess or go jogging, for some people such activities are so boring and not attractive at all. Therefore, people have the right to do the types of sport that they are interested in and we can’t enforce or limit them to do specific types of sports. Therefore while some people enjoy extreme sports that may be dangerous, they have chosen these activities as they enjoy doing it. On the other hand, adventurous sports are son beneficial for body and soul. They make our body stronger and make us healthier and they are also a cure for mental problems such as depressions.
Although people are free to choose extreme sports, they should pay attention to reduce the risks and dangers of such activities. There are many workshops and training courses for skiing, mountain climbing, scuba diving and etc., in addition, people should have regular health checkups to be sure of their health when going for adventurous sports. In this way, the risk and serious injury of adventures sports can be reduced and participants will benefit from such activities full filly.

Dilemma

Dilemma

In each person’s life, there are alot of dilemmas. Many situations that you should make a decision. Make the decisions for choosing choices. Each selection will bring different results for you. Results that would affect your life deeply. In my life, there have been many dilemmas also, and now I am facing one of the most important of them. to immigrate or not. This is the matter. I wholeheartedly want this change to happen. I have special enough reason for my decision. But the challenge is that i am not the only one who should make this decision, i am not a single person to make my choice without considering any other person. I am a wife and also a mother. My decision should be supported and be liked my main participant of my life; my husband. He is in favor of leaving Iran, but time to time he expresses his hesitation. He is right. His worries are true and natural. In our age, such a big and important decision is not an easy thing. To start from the beginning point is not easy at all. When time to time he shows how hesitant he is, i am affected by his feelings seriously. I become disappointed and lose energy to follow our goal of immigration. These stops in our process, result in losing time and opportunities. I cant find any solution for this hesitations that time to time appear, as they are natural and true challenges.

father's day

Today is 10th of Farvardin, equal to 13th of Raja which is named Father‘s day in the Persian calendar. This day is the birthday of Imam Ali, Muslims first Imam. This year I haven’t bought any gift for my husband, I just expressed congratulation to my hasband by words. I am thankful to him because of being a wonderful husband and father. I am proud of him as he so supportive for my son and I. Not only he is so kind but also so responsible for us.

start writing in english

IN THE NAME OF GOD THE COMPASSIONATE THE MERCIFUL

It is the first passage in English. I have decided to write a text in English daily. It will be related to routine topics or specified topics. To add on more I am doing so to improve my typing speed and make practice in writing in English. To start, I am going to talk about my family. I have a lovely son. Whose name is Soroush he is 16 months old. My husband and I love him so much. He is a cute little baby who is a naughty boy too. Now he is in age that needs so much attention. As I am busy with home affairs and because of back surgery I can’t take him up or carry him, he is playing with his daddy most of the time. As he wake up in the morning at about 7 o clock every day, he just start hanging around house, he is busy with checking any home utilities we are working with, he has little interest with his own toys. Not only it is unsafe to play with home utilities such as vacuum cleaner, mobile phones, electricity plugs and etc., it is also tiring to beware of keeping all these things hidden from his sight. Any way he is in a rage that want to establish his independence, it is the beginning of a process that will last about 2 years more, at least. Although it is frustrating to entertain him for more than 15 hours daily, it is also enjoyable to spend time with him and watch how cute and sweet he is.

I think for tonight as start of writing in English is enough, I wish I would not be lazy and continue this process, as it is essential for improvement of my writing skills.

اشتباه 1

به عینه ثابت شده .... هر نوع تماس با این فرد نزدیک از نوع چهره به چهره یا حتی تلفنی موجب به همریختگی، خشم و عصبانیت زیاد من می شود. و به اشتباه هر بار و هر بار بعد از مکالمه تلفنی یا دیدار حضوری تا ساعت ها و یا حتی روزها تاثیر منفی آن را بر روح و روان و زندگیم مینینم.

این اشتباه بارها و بارهااااا تکرار می شود.

 

دلیل  احتمالی برای آزار من:

1- همیشه حرف های بی ر بط آزار دهنده می زند

2- انرزی منفی فوق العاده زیادی دارد که به من منتقل می شود

3- زبان تند و گزنده ای دارد

 

راه حل های احتمالی:

1- تماس از هر نوع را به حداقل برسانم

2- صبر و تحمل رو در برابر افراد بی منطق و ربان نفهم  بیشتر کنم

3- از افراد روان پریش تا حد ممکن دوری کنم

آغاز دوباره

هدف از آغاز نوشتن در این وب لاگ و خانه قدیمی آغازی دوباره است. آغازی که مستلزم نگاهی به رویدادها و شرایطی است که من را در این نقظه قرار داده ....نقطه صفر و شاید زیر صفر.

باید به این رنج پایان داد

بعد از نزدیک به دوسال  دوباره اومدم اینجا.

آخرین مطلب مال آرزوی های سال 93 بوده ؟؟!!!

باور کردنی نیست!!! الان اردیبهشت 95

انگار زمان متوقف شده بود.

انگار دو سال توی کما بودم

درحقیقت انگار واقعا توی کما بودم. چون هیچی یادم نمیاد ...هیچی یادم نمیاد که چیکار کردم !!!

یعنی هیچ کاری انجام ندادم که یادم بیاد.

کل زندگیم یک ور ، این دو سال هم یک ور...

اینهمه احساس بیهودگی، توقف، فلج ذهنی ....

این حجم از ناامیدی و توقف رو در کل دوران زندگیم ، اینطوری تجربه نکردم

دنبال دلیلم، هی ذهنم رو شخم می زنم، هی زیرو رو میکنم که چی شد که اینجوری شد...

همش به یه چیز ختم میشه...جایگاه اشتباهی ... اینجا جای من نبود.

جایی که نه تنها حس لذت و موفقیت و پیشرفت و امید  نداد ...بلکه حس ضعف و ناتوانی و بیهودگی رو هر روز بهم یادآوری کرد

خیلی تلاش کردم، خیلی جنگیدم...خیلییی

نتونستم، نتونستم باهاش کنار بیام. نه زورکی شد عاشقش بشم. نه شد باهش به عنوان یه کار اجباری  و به خاطر حقوقش کنار بیام

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کندن ازش شجاعت و جسارت میخواد

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نمی خوام این روزها و ماه های حمل یه موجود جدید تو وجوم را با اینهمه حس ناامیدی و ضعف و عذاب سپری کنم. ولی نمیدونم باید چیکار کنم

تو مدیونی ...


میدونم که این روزها فشار و رنج عظیمی تحمل می کنی....

میدونم که پشیمونی از بازگشتت به جای که با زحمت خیلی زیاد ازش بریده بودی و رفنه بودی ...

میدونم که تحمل این آدما و طرز رفتارشون برات غیرقابل تحمل ...

میدونم که از رنجی که این آدما به خودشون و اطرافیانشون میدن، خیلی رنج میبری...

ولی ، میدونم که به یکی از این آدما "مدیونم"، "مدیونم برای خوب زندگی کردن "....